I have no particular memories of the 1960s as the 1960s.
I remember the decade as the decade when I was a kid and I had a very generic kidhood. Cub Scouts, Little League, model airplanes, comic books and baseball cards, Hardy Boys, school days, school days, dear old golden rule days, reading and writing and 'rithmatic, taught to the tune of a hick'ry stick...
I was vaguely aware of Vietnam, but I didn't think about it or worry about it until I was in eighth grade when I was an altar boy serving the funeral mass of a local kid, the nephew of a neighbor, who had been killed not in the rice paddies but in Texas where he was training to be a helicopter pilot, which pretty much meant he was training to be a sitting duck in the air over the rice paddies and that made him a casualty of the War as far as I could tell, but by then Nixon was President, Vietnamization was the word of the day, and Henry Kissinger was promising us Peace With Honor any day now. We were coming to the light at the end of the tunnel at last. It was the light at the opening back where we went in, unfortunately, but our part in the War was winding to its bitter end just as I was beginning to understand its horror.
Before that, though, for all I really knew or cared about Vietnam, the protests, Lyndon Johnson, the counterculture, hippies, yippies, racial tensions, the riots, the music, the fashions, sex, drugs, and rock and roll and for all it affected the daily lives of us kids, I might as well have been growing up in the late 1940s, the 1920s, the 1980s, or now.
So it's odd to me that I can be so nostalgic for the 60s.
But not those 1960s.
Not John Lennon's 1960s.
John Kennedy's.
Which were of course really the late 1950s.
A time I certainly don't remember.
But that doesn't stop me from missing those days.
I miss the music. I miss the fashions, the gray flannel suits on the men and the flouncy dresses on the women. I miss the cars. I miss the colors. After the 1960s, those 1960s, when somebody turned up the brightness and colors became florescent and blinding, designers of all kinds, fashion, interior, industrial, artistic, and graphic, adopted a more muted palette and even in periods when brighter colors have come back in style, they've only been relatively brighter, not as muddy or sombre as the periods immediately before and after.
I want my Technicolor blue skies back.
Late last night, inspired by the Mad Men live blogging at newcritics and the YouTube clip I posted the other day of Robert Morse singing I Believe in You, his signature song from How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying, I watched the movie How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying.
And I realized something.
Something that had begun to dawn on me last week when I watched North By Northwest.
I'm not nostalgic for the actual 1960s.
I'm nostalgic for the movie version, which I didn't get to know until long after I'd lived through the real thing.
I was in my twenties when I saw North By Northwest for the first time.
Since then though I've seen it and the other great Technicolor Hitchcocks---Rear Window, Vertigo, To Catch a Thief---and plenty of other movies from the period enough times that the look has saturated my brain to the point that it's spilled out of that part where I file my memories of the movies I've seen and flowed over into that part where I keep my memories of my actual life.
Add to this my long-standing love for The Dick Van Dyke Show, my taste in music---Frank Sinatra in his Nelson Riddle-Capitol-Songs for Swingin' Lovers years---and the fact that I was alive and had eyes and ears at the time, even if I wasn't paying close attention to all that grown-up stuff, and the result is that I now "remember" the early 1960s as if I'd been Rob Petrie, Roger Thornhill, or J. Pierpont Finch.
And I miss those times.
Which is ridiculous.
Given that these are mostly false memories, and given that what is actual memory is actually memories of the time in my life when I developed my tastes for the period, my twenties, and given that a lot of what I miss hasn't gone away because what I'm missing are movies I can watch and records I can play anytime I want, I should either be nostalgic for the 1980s or not nostalgic at all.
But I am and it bugs me.
I hate feeling nostalgic generally because it's a roundabout form of self-pity, but being nostalgic about a time you not only weren't aware of you were living through but which isn't even wholly real is a problem when you're trying to make artistic judgments.
(Won't get into it here, but nostalgia is by definition a feeling inspired by a time that never was, as it's the case that when we're nostalgic we're usually remembering the past in a highly selected and idealized way.)
I honestly believe that movies were better then.
That the fashions were better then.
That the music was, if not better, more varied and more complex in ways that made listening to music a better experience, and at any rate listening to Sinatra on the hi-fi was more pleasurable than listening to Green Day on your iPod.
People looked and moved better then.
Ok, Cary Grant and Eva Marie Saint looked better than Brad and Angelina.
And I know it was the point of Everybody Loves Raymond, but Rob and Laura were sexier, funnier, and cooler than Ray and Debra.
The women were prettier then.
The comedians were funnier then.
The President was better then.
I'm convinced this is all true, and yet it's not, because my judgments are tainted by nostalgia and false memories.
But then...
Watching How to Succeed in Business last night I could see signs of coming changes that were I think objectively changes for the worse.
The movie was released in 1967 but the director and designers seemed to be trying to capture the look and feel of seven years earlier when the musical was on Broadway. I think they understood that those 1960s had taken hold and that the musical already a period piece. The set designs, the lighting, the color schemes, even the cinematography, and definitely the sound, not just the music but the voices and the background noises, were meant to recall an earlier and already vanishing New York City. The street scenes were carefully framed so that the cars rush by in the corners and far background of the shots and you can't identify any makes or models that would fix the time period. The men's suits and hair styles were far more conservative than they would have been even in a corporate office in 1967.
The one aspect of the overall design where the late 1960s impinged and the period feel is broken is that aspect where Hollywood designers have always given themselves permission to be anachronistic---the women's fashions and make-up.
You wouldn't call anything any of the women are wearing "mod"---except for a dumb pink vinyl jockey cap somebody who hated her stuck on Michelle Lee's head in one short scene---but the women's dresses generally didn't flounce the way they should have; in fact, they had that stiff, sack-like blockiness that defined women's silhouettes by 1970 and made even trim and pretty young women like my mother look like they were built like shoeboxes and as if they were wearing army blankets decorated with oversized buttons and wide strips of construction paper.
There's no way you can look at what the women in How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying are wearing and what Eva Marie Saint wore in North By Northwest eight years earlier and not think, When did ugly become the fashion?
Maybe it's nostalgia or maybe it's just a matter of personal taste, but it just looks to me that between 1960 and 1970 people forgot how to do a lot of things they had known how to do and do well and they've not learned how to get those skills back since.
Times change, technologies improve, societies rearrange themselves, skills and talents that were admirable, that are still remarkable in retrospect, become obsolete, habits and mores and even moralities evolve, devolve, reverse, dominate, or subvert themselves.
An awful lot of life has gotten better since 1960, so much better that it's trivial-minded of me to lament the passing of the three button suit and the mambo, especially since I never owned the one or danced the other.
But help it I cannot, I cannot help thinking that we've forgotten a lot that we didn't need to forget to get ourselves from then to now.
We forgot how to make movies.
Forgot how to design and wear clothes.
Forgot how to sing a song.
Forgot how to dance.
Forgot how to tell a good joke.
Forgot how to build...well, most anything, but especially cars.
All the other losses might be arguable, but I defy you to convince me that America has designed or built a better car since the '65 Mustang.





Here's a little snippet from Charles Bernstein's A Poetics
I was 18 when Kennedy was shot, 35 when Lennon was. Pretty much defines my youth. For me, the nostalgia tends to be for the late thirties, early forties. Then all things were better: president (Roosevelt!), fashions, movies (Astaire! Bogey!), music (Cole Porter!), cars.
Though I'll admit, I'll take Grant over Pitt any day.
Posted by: Bluegrass Poet | Saturday, August 25, 2007 at 03:22 PM
I've realized that part of my own feelings of nostalgia about the time before I was born, or when I was very young, is this: I had no responsibility for my life or decisions (especially before I existed!) so I can project on the past a delightfulness i would not have experienced had i lived through it.
I can't have nostalgia for the 80's because it was when I made decisions, or failed to, and this has consequence for where i am today. Having lived through that decade, I recall mostly regret and difficulty and sorrow. Being reminded of then makes me queasy, anti-nostalgia.
But I can daydream about the 1930's with pleasure.
Posted by: Deschanel | Saturday, August 25, 2007 at 04:15 PM
"I've realized that part of my own feelings of nostalgia about the time before I was born, or when I was very young, is this: I had no responsibility for my life or decisions (especially before I existed!) so I can project on the past a delightfulness i would not have experienced had i lived through it."
I fully agree, when I think of times or watch things from before my time, I see only an open road. I think of all that is yet to be. It reminds me of Peggy Sue going back and realizing she could discover the Beatles.
Posted by: Jennifer | Saturday, August 25, 2007 at 04:41 PM
I got out of high school in 1965 so the sixties for me were the early to mid 60s. It has always been irritating to me that people say the sixties and mean two years at the end of the decade. I gravitated to jazz, blues and beatniks - believe me, not mainstream at the time is small-town America. I welcomed the end of mindless restrictions but always had a bit of contempt for the self-regarding element of the sex, drugs and rock-and-roll group who thought that they had invented it all. Just shows my age, I guess.
Posted by: anansi | Sunday, August 26, 2007 at 10:13 AM
"North By Northwest isn't a film about what happens to Cary Grant, it's about what happens to his suit." I miss men's hats, too, and the notion that musicians should look sharp. I miss the idea that everyone should look sharp, and the expression itself. Back then, to show up without a jacket and tie was to demonstrate that one was utterly clueless, without any class at all. I suppose my nostalgia-- a disease, after all, a yearning for a time that never was, is for post-WWII America. Let's put it right at 1948 through the year I was born. If I were the age I like to imagine I am today back then I suppose I'd be my own father, in his coconut straw hat and rep tie. Hell, I have his record collection, although I'd like to imagine that I'd have been hep to Miles and Monk too.
Of course, to have lived then would have been to have fallen prey to the same appalling social attitudes prevalent at the time. My old man dodged the bigotry, somehow, but that wouldn't be a guarantee that I would have, and in our search for our inner Cary Grant it is probably worth recalling that there were any number of similar attitudes that we would no doubt be wishing upon ourselves. Lately it has become current to quote Faulkner's remark about the past not even being past,(are so many people suddenly reading "As I Lay Dying" or is something else going on?) but although that's true, I am mistrustful of any impulse which assumes that somehow anything was better at some specified point years ago. I am, it must be said, similarly skeptical of the notion that there is such a thing as human progress, which leaves me mired in the present, I suppose. In my hat, with my Sinatra records, drinking a Rob Roy.
Posted by: Bill Altreuter | Sunday, August 26, 2007 at 01:31 PM
I'm nostalgic for a time when I had no real consciousness of events - the post war forties. I was born in LA in 1946 and something that Robert Towne once wrote in an appreciation of Raymond Chandler has stuck with me. What I wouldn't give to have cruised Sunset Blvd then - the Macombo, Trocadero, Brown Derby. Maybe even seen the master hoisting a G&T at Musso's in Hollywood. Somehow that just seems like a more interesting time.
Posted by: richard locicero | Sunday, August 26, 2007 at 03:35 PM
Lance, you're entitled to your nostalgia. Writers need it, I think. They need to believe in then and now and the difference and see to it (as best they can) that other people believe it, too. Where would writers (or anyone else) be without a soupcon of self-pity?
And taste in clothes, movies, cars, music,TV shows, etc: That's what writers and bloggers (and what bloggers aren't writers?) *should* be all about.
Furthermore, I don't accept you were a generic kid. No one is or was, but you of all people!
Posted by: grassshopper | Sunday, August 26, 2007 at 07:44 PM
Have you ever actually driven a '65 Mustang?
It's an awful car by today's standards.
Suits and hats went out of style when we (young people) realized that we were being lied to and killed by men wearing suits and hats -- it became the costume of the Enemy. Why would one want to dress like J. Edgar Hoover?
Posted by: joel hanes | Sunday, August 26, 2007 at 09:30 PM
I can't convince you. I won't try. But I can tell you why I can't convince you.
A '65 Mustang, under the skin, is just a Ford Falcon. The magic was that a guy that was driving a longerlowerwider Riviera or Grand Prix thought he might look good in one. And so did his wife and his son and daughter. It was a car that was appropriate for anyone to drive, universally acceptable at the supermarket and the club and bowling alley. They were affordable but not cheap, and I can't think of anyone that was alive in the sixties that would have looked wrong getting out of a Mustang. Jackie Kennedy. Cary Grant. Mort Sahl. Jane Fonda. Bob McNamera. Barry Goldwater. Jim Morrison. Nothing else has been so right for so many since. The only equivalent would be the cross-class appeal of the Mini in England during the same time.
Now, a 'better' car? The first Mustangs weren't as good as you remember. The brakes and the steering and the acceleration were, um, Falconesque. They were unlikely to break 15 seconds on the dragstrip or get 15 mpg on the highway. There is a halo effect from the racing Shelby Mustang GT350s that lingers but they sold a lot of them with drum brakes and a straight six. The back seat was only good for kids and groceries and the driving position is a little close to the wheel and the vinyl seats would stick to you and melt. By today's standards of reliability, comfort, quiet, performance and especially safety, the new one is a much better car. So is every other new car on the market. And none of that matters. People loved them.
What we quit building was a car the second owner would love and the third owner would maintain and the fourth owner could restore. It wasn't just us. Nobody builds one. Who's going to restore an '01 Camry? With the complexity and the plastic materials, who CAN restore one? Somewhere some kid is losing his virginity in one tonight. In 20 years he will remember this experience. He will not remember the car in any special way and be motivated to buy one and fix it up. It's just not that kind of car. Just for starters, it has four doors and was not driven in a movie by Steve McQueen.
For example, Neddie Jingo just bought a 1964 Triumph Bonneville. It requires more owner participation than a modern bike when it comes to maintenance and parts and tools and knowledge. The new ones look almost the same but start every time and don't leak oil. Doesn't matter; he wanted an original because it was an original. You can't argue with how the bike makes Neddie feel when he rides it and when he walks out to the garage and looks at it. It's love. Zing go the strings.
So, when you ask if we have built a better car than the '65 Mustang, it begs the response "Better for what?"
Better for the function of a car, yeah. Better for the dream of a car, no. And that's why I can't convince you that a new car is better; you're seeing through your heart.
Posted by: Jim 7 | Monday, August 27, 2007 at 12:49 AM
i've always held that "the sixties" were really the consumate commercialization of "beat generation" ... which held forth in the 50's. an oversimplification to be sure. but i like my concepts simple. sometimes.
Posted by: anita | Monday, August 27, 2007 at 07:06 AM
Whenever I find myself wallowing in that eternal 1958 I was too young to experience for myself, I interrupt my reverie on lost elegance, style, and -- I use the word very deliberately -- class, and remind myself how unlikely it was that I would have been able to live that kind of life. Tailored suits? Can't afford them now, and I'm doing pretty well for myself, thank you. White tablecloth restaurants a couple of times a week? Ditto. Dressing for dinner? And doing all this on one salary from a not-too-demanding, rather vaguely defined 9-to-5 job? Not bloody likely, mate.
We all want to be Cary Grant (including, famously, Cary Grant himself) or Humphrey Bogart, but on the odds we're all far more likely to be Ernest Borgnine or Ralph Kramden.
And the food sucked then, too.
Posted by: CJColucci | Monday, August 27, 2007 at 08:14 AM
If I were to undertake restoration of a 1965 Detroit car, one that had about the same amenities as the Mustang but that actually drove like a car instead of like a boat, it would be the 1965 Chevy Corvair Monza Spyder. Yah, Nader and all, but still, a 2+2 Detroit car that knew how to corner and how to brake. Probably too sporty-looking for your everyman's-car mythos, though, at least in 1965 terms.
http://www.corvaircorsa.com/spyder.html
Posted by: joel hanes | Monday, August 27, 2007 at 08:18 AM
The culture you describe was still confident and growing. In the U.S., real income per capita topped out in 1968, a point that might be termed Peak America, and that confidence has slowly melted away ever since. All of the examples you cite are true, but as margins have shrunk, changes have been made. Some of the changes have been positive, and some have been made to seem so. Some are mixed blessings. Women can work now, but 'fashion' is trash and popular music is dead from the genitals up.
All of these are signs of the decay. Who can afford a good suit? An appropriately printed t-shirt is much more affordable. What to celebrate in song except cock and wallet? Beauty and craft cost extra.
This is also the source of the cynicism and self-reference of the politics of the time as we are sold backlot stage-dressing versions of past glories.
It ain't coming back, so Caveat Emptor.
Posted by: Underlying Patterns | Monday, August 27, 2007 at 08:55 AM
Every time I see an movie from that era, everyone looks so wonderful - the clothes, the hats, the shoes.....I was thinking about this this weekend while watching Pleasantville. It's a lovely fantasy.
And then I think about those clothes...the women's clothes in particular. How complicated, how constricting, how confining and torturous the undergarments must have been, how expensive even the most basic and limited version of it would have been. How a secretary could have afforded it. Or a teacher.
My mom was a secretary in adversing in Boston in 1965. My recollection is that she made 60 dollars a week. Her parents still paid most of her expenses. It took four suitcases to get those clothes home for the holidays. And my grandparents were also the ones who decided when it was time for her to stop stop playing at work and get married, when she was 25 and the last single girl in their social circle.
I'd love to think I'd have been the iconoclast making a different path, but it would have been a lonely one, and unlikely really. So no nostalgia here. We've lost civility and hats - that sounds flip, but I don't mean it that way - but gained a few things that are pretty important to me.
Posted by: Juno | Monday, August 27, 2007 at 11:30 AM
And I know it was the point of Everybody Loves Raymond, but Rob and Laura were sexier, funnier, and cooler than Ray and Debra.
true that, lance.
i love brad garrett and doris roberts on everybody loves raymond -- those two are the only reasons i watch the damn show. but morey amsterdam as buddy sorrell and rose marie as ally rogers beat them as supporting players and comic relief.
Posted by: harry near indy | Monday, August 27, 2007 at 04:25 PM
HTSIBWRT, to be short, was a very successful musical that had to be translated on a movie into a replication of the theatre experience that improved upon it--impossible, and typical--see also "The Music Man", in which simple stage music and vocals are translated into Red Army Chorus level sound.
It doesn't help that David Swift seemed to think his players had to project to the people sitting in the restaurant across the street.
At least they kept Morse. The studio was after Cary Garnt to play Harold Hill, but he insisted that the role belonged to Preston (and he didn't want the backlash that befell Audrey Hepburn).
Posted by: Steve Paradis | Monday, August 27, 2007 at 06:19 PM
Oh come now Lance, how can you give me an easy lob to slam like that? The obvious answer to your plaintive request is, of course; the 1967 Mustang!
Posted by: W. | Monday, August 27, 2007 at 07:05 PM
I, too, often feel that nostalgia for times long gone - times even before I was born.
But I was recently watching The Twilight Zone, which covers the early 60s, with the suits and ties, etc, and if that show captured the zeitgeist at all (I'm too young to know) than nostalgia for the period is unwarranted.
Still, I know what you mean and find myself agreeing with a lot of your post anyway.
Posted by: Kevin Wolf | Tuesday, August 28, 2007 at 07:58 AM
Can't really dig the 1980s, which is when I grew up. Now, what I do have nostalgia for is the 1480s - man, they really swung some style back then (no, I'm not joking actually).
Posted by: burritoboy | Tuesday, August 28, 2007 at 04:33 PM
I know I'm late to this party. But, the best car of the 60s was the 1970 Chevelle.
Hands down.
Posted by: Domoni | Saturday, September 01, 2007 at 06:34 PM
I honestly believe that movies were better then.
That the fashions were better then.
http://webapp1.dlib.indiana.edu/cushman/results/detail.do?query=maxwell&page=2&pagesize=20&display=thumbcap&action=search&pnum=P10312
"That the music was, if not better, more varied and more complex in ways that made listening to music a better experience, and at any rate listening to Sinatra on the hi-fi was more pleasurable than listening to Green Day on your iPod.
People looked and moved better then.
Ok, Cary Grant and Eva Marie Saint looked better than Brad and Angelina."
Posted by: andrew | Thursday, September 06, 2007 at 04:20 PM
I'm even later than Domoni but, to both echo and disagree with him, what about the '69 Mach One?
Posted by: xaaronx | Sunday, September 23, 2007 at 01:07 PM
Yes, the mustang was indeed a champion. I was wondering if you'd like to trade site links. I'm at:
http://www.jeffs60s.com
Thanks!
Posted by: Jeff | Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 06:58 AM